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As time goes on, people learn to adjust better and better. He says that his mother seemed withdrawn from activities when in fact she was in the center of everything and had finally adjusted to life in a senior living community. A lot of people believe that their loved ones will always be miserable in senior living arrangements, but this isn't always the case. Over time, people will get used to their surroundings and make the best of it. No need to worry about how they're doing all the time. Just step back and allow them to live. Another part that I found interesting was when he was talking about his mother's death and how there were many close calls. You have to treat the last months well, and be sure to visit as much as possible. Although it's impossible to know exactly when they will die, there are some indications and it's important to embrace them. The end may be hard, and they might fight with you, but it isn't their fault. You have to stay positive and let them know that you'll always be there no matter what. My parents are aging, and I always have to remember to be more patient and understanding with them because they don't realize they're acting in a negative manner, they're just trying to figure things out on their own, and I want to be supportive.
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